Jumat, 06 November 2009

Everything Happens for a Reason

Everything Happens for a Reason

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there... to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower or heart.

Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck.

Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity..... all occurs to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere, safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create who you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart to.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things.

Make every day count.

Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen.

Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high.

Hold your head up because you have every right to.

Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you.

Create your own life and then go out and live it..

Perempuan

Mengutip apa yang ditulis teman gw
Andika Edwin Pahlevi
tentang wanita.. dibuat saat hari Kartini tahun 2009
tulisannya kayak gini...

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"Perempuan itu indah, walau tak semua perempuan menujukan keindahan yang sempurna. Karena sesungguhnya keindahan itu adalah sesuatu yang relatif di mata kita.

Perempuan itu menyejukan. Sangat menyejukan bila di ibaratkan bagai oasis di gurun pasir, kesejukan itu lebih tepatnya dari mata turun ke hati.

Perempuan itu kuat. Bahkan lebih kuat dari mahkluk bernama laki-laki, seorang perempuan bisa lebih tegar dari batu karang.

Perempuan itu rapuh, sangat rapuh. Perempuan itu bagai kaca yang keliatanya kuat namun sebenarnya mudah retak bahkan bisa pecah berkeping-keping.

Perempuan itu misterius. banyak orang laki-laki bilang saya mengerti seluk beluk perempuan, namun apa parameternya? Karena telah merasa menaklukan mereka berkali-kali dalam hubungan emosional bernama "pacaran" atau apapun itu namanya? perlu studi,riset,kajian,dan segala upaya ilmiah lebih dari beribu-ribu tahun untuk mengungkapkan apa definisi dari seorang perempuan. Perempuan itu bagai kotak pandora yang kita tidak pernah ketahui apa isi sebenarnya, walau sorang laki-laki telah mengikat perempuan dalam hubungan bernama perkawinan.

Perempuan itu panas dan dingin. Maksud saya adalah mereka tidak memiliki emosi yang stabi,l sekarang panas beberapa saat kemudian langsung dingin. Bila di analogikan sekarang perempuan itu mengingkannya mungkin beberapa saat lagi tidak menginginkannya, sangat inkonsisten.

Perempuan itu penyihir. Perempuan bisa menyihir kita jadi apapun yang dia mau.

Perempuan itu penakluk. Perempuan bagai raja Roma yang berhasil menguasai beberapa belahan dunia.

Perempuan itu penjajah. Bila ada yang bilang laki-laki lebih dominan, anda salah besar kawan terkadang perempuan lebih dominan dari kita bahkan terkesan bagai penjajah (ini berlaku bagi laki-laki yang di butakan hatinya oleh perempuan).

Perempuan itu ingin dimengerti, namun sayangnya kita(laki-laki) tidak bisa 100% mengerti mereka (maafkan kami(laki-laki) wahai perempuan).

Perempuan itu sumber. Tanpa perempuan tidak ada kehidupan kehidupan baru datangnya dari perempuan (dengan sedikit bantuan laki-laki tentunya).

Perempuan itu diciptakan dari tulang rusuk laki-laki. Bukan dari otaknya untuk didikte, bukan dari kakinya untuk di injak-injak, tapi kita (laki-laki) harus berjalan di sampingnya memegang erat tangannya dan saling melindungi."
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Rabu, 04 November 2009

Mocca - I Remember (Ost.Catatan Akhir Sekolah)

I remember...
The way you glanced at me, yes i remember
I remember...
when the caught a shooting star, yes i remember
I remember...
all the things that we shared
and the promise we made, just you and i
I remember...
all the laughter we shared, all the wishes we made
Upon the roof at down...

Do you remember...?
when we were dancing in the rain in that december
And i remember...
when my father thought you were a burglar
I remember...
all the things that we shared, and the promise we made just you and i...
I remember...
all the laughter we shared, all the wishes we made
Upon the roof at down...

Yes i remember...
all the things that we shared, and the promise we made just you and i...
I remember...
all the laughter we shared, all the wishes we made
Upon the roof at down...

I remember...
the way you read your books
Yes i remember...
the way you tield your shoes
Yes i remember...
the cake you loved the most
Yes i remember...
the way you drank your cofee
I remember...
the way you glanced at me, yes i remember
when we caught a shooting star
Yes i remember...
when we were dancing in the rain in that december
and the you smile at me
Yes i remember....